The Oy of Sex

comedy · alicia dattner · Ages 16+ · United States of America

one person show


Recipe for Disaster: Take 1 virgin, 2 boyfriends, several dozen lovers, half a dysfunctional family, and 1 comedian. Bake 15 years, and sprinkle a pinch of polyamory. Serve hot, and, voila! You have the sizzling one-woman show, The Oy of Sex, delectable and hilarious. A heart-wrenching, sobering, laugh-out-loud -til-your-cheeks-hurt story of sex, drugs… and more sex.


“Dattner is a delight to watch, and her enthusiasm is intoxicating.”


“Alicia brings the audience into her intimate space and guiding them on a breathtakingly hilarious ride through her personal history made public. If you want to laugh until your soul shakes, and feel like a better person for the experience, do yourself a favor and check out this incredible performance.” -LUDICROUS PALAVER

“Goofy, messy, and fun.” – SF WEEKLY


“Alicia’s performance was a pleasure to watch. The material was funny, apt, and full of humor and insights about love addiction and recovery. I love her capacity to be very deep without being heavy handed. I highly recommend.” -Kate L.

“Thank you for allowing WHATEVER you allowed to come through you to create and present such a masterful work of brilliance!” -Erin D.

“Wow. Alicia is a force of Nature. She reminds me a little of Lenny Bruce, and at times, Margaret Cho. She is a superb storyteller, and provides much food for thought. Bravo, Alicia.” -Stephen B.


“Best Comedian” -Voted Best of the Bay, SF Weekly & SF Bay Guardian

“Best of the Fringe” [For Oy of Sex] -San Francisco Fringe Festival

“Best Storyteller” -New York United Solo Festival, Off Broadway

“Goofy, messy, and fun!” Pick of the Week -SF Weekly

“Best of the Fringe” & “Best Female Solo Act” [ForThe Punchline] -San Francisco Fringe Festival

“Roar of the Crowd Award” -Goldstar Events Award for Highest Member Rated Show

“Sold Out Show Award” -SF Fringe Festival

Production Team

* Fringe Veteran