What I liked
Everything! The audio messages, the quotes and proverbs from her dad, the stories she shares about him, the humor, the loud facial expressions. She makes grief funny, accessible, and deeply human—because it doesn’t always have to be sad. We get to find the humor in it, and oh baby, it’s funny—especially when a phenomenal storyteller like Adedana is the one sharing. It’s simple, but so full and so beautifully crafted.
What I didn't like
Perhaps the only thing that could be improved is… well… making this a movie (Netflix, what’s up?!). I would’ve loved to watch it with my pen and journal in hand to revisit and reflect on some of the beautiful points she made. One watch isn’t enough—and neither was two. I’d love to return again and again to tend to my own grief babies.
My overall impression
This dynamic one-woman show lovingly encouraged me to more fully embrace my own grief, and examine and pray about my significant relationships so I can decide in advance how I want to grieve.
Though it’s centered on her relationship with her earthly/ biological father, their bond was so deep and profound, I couldn’t help but wonder how my heavenly father and holy mother see and delight in me. The guidance, the love, the proverbs, the indirect answers and responses; it was such a joy to witness. I’m grateful Adedana chooses to share her father’s legacy in this way.
And if you cry easy like I do? Pro tip: bring tissues.
